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Living in Consonance with Guru's Tenets
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Living in Consonance with Guru’s Tenets
A Sikh’s living, earning livelihood, thinking and conduct should accord
with the Guru’s tenets. The Guru’s tenets are :
(a)
- Worship should be rendered only to the One Timeless Being and to no
god or goddess.
(b)
- Regarding the ten Gurus, the Guru Granth and the ten Gurus' word
alone as saviors and holy objects of veneration.
(c)
- Regarding ten Gurus as the effulgence of one light and one single
entity.
(d)
- Not believing in cast or descent, untouchability, magic, spells,
incantation, omens, auspicious times, days and occasions, influence of
stars, horoscopic dispositions, shradh (ritual serving of food to
priests for the salvation of ancestors on appointed days as per the
lunar calendar), ancestor worship, khiah (ritual serving of food to
priests - Brahmins - on the lunar anniversaries of the death of an
ancestor) *,
pind (offering of funeral barley cakes to the deceased’s relatives),
patal (ritual donating of food in the belief that that would satisfy
the hunger of the departed soul), diva (the ceremony of keeping an oil
lamp lit for 360 days after the death, in the belief that that lights
the path of the deceased), ritual funeral acts, hom (lighting of
ritual fire and pouring intermittently clarified butter, food grains
etc. into it for propitiating gods for the fulfillment of a purpose)
jag (religious ceremony involving presentation of oblations), tarpan
(libation), sikha-sut (keeping a tuft of hair on the head and wearing
thread), bhadan (shaving of head on the death of a parent), fasting on
new or full moon or other days, wearing of frontal marks on the
forehead, wearing of thread, wearing of a necklace of the pieces of
tulsi **stalk
, veneration of any graves, of monuments erected to honour the memory
of a deceased person or of cremation sites, idolatry and such like
superstitious observances. ***
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- Not owning up or regarding as hallowed any place other than the
Guru’s place - such, for instance, as sacred spots or places of
pilgrimage of other faiths.
- Not believing in or according any authority to Muslim seers,
Brahmins holiness, soothsayers, clairvoyants, oracles, promise of an
offering on the fulfillment of a wish, offering of sweet loaves or
rice pudding at graves on fulfillment of wishes, the Vedas, the
Shastras, the Gayatri (Hindu scriptural prayer unto the sun), the Gita,
the Quran, the Bible, etc.. However, the study of the books of other
faiths for general self-education is admissible.
(e)
- The Khalsa should maintain its distinctiveness among the professors
of different religions of the world, but should not hurt the sentiment
of any person professing another religion.
(f)
- A Sikh should pray to God before launching off any task.
(g)
- Learning Gurmukhi (Punjabi in Gurmukhi script) is essential for a
Sikh. He should pursue other studies also.
(h)
- It is a Sikh’s duty to get his children educated in Sikhism.
(i)
- A Sikh should, in no way, harbour any antipathy to the hair of the
head with which his child is born. He should not temper with the hair
with which the child is born. He should add the suffix “Singh” to
the name of his son. A Sikh should keep the hair of his sons and
daughters intact.
(j)
- A Sikh must not take hemp (cannabis), opium, liquor, tobacco, in
short any intoxicant. His only routine intake should be food.
(k)
- Piercing of the nose or ears for wearing ornaments is forbidden for
Sikh men and women.
(l)
- A Sikh should not kill his daughter, nor should he maintain any
relationship with a killer of daughter.
(m)
- The true Sikh of the Guru shall make an honest living by lawful
work.
(n)
- A Sikh shall regard a poor person’s mouth as the Guru’s cash
offerings box.
(o)
- A Sikh should not steal, form dubious associations or engage in
gambling.
(p)
- He who regards another man’s daughter as his own daughter, regards
another man’s wife as his mother, has coition with his own wife
alone, he alone is a truly disciplined Sikh of the Guru.
A Sikh woman shall likewise keep within the confines of conjugal
rectitude.
(q)
- A Sikh shall observe the Sikh rules of conduct and conventions from
his birth right upto the end of his life.
(r)
- A Sikh, when he meets another Sikh, should greet him with
“Waheguru ji ka Khalsa, Waheguru ji ki Fateh” ****.
This is ordained for Sikh men and women both.
(s)
- It is not proper for a Sikh woman to wear a veil or keep her face
hidden by veil or cover.
(t)
- For a Sikh, there is no restriction or requirement as to dress
except for he must wear Kachhehra *****
and turban. A Sikh woman may or may not tie turban.
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